Love quotes and lots!

So well, Feb is not here yet and I'm all about love :) Kabhi kabhi esa bhi hota. What is your favourite love quote, I've been tweeting quite a few these days, just in case you wanna catch up I'm @iSpiriTualist

Or you can just leave a comment :)

Love is all you need

I crave a love so deep that the ocean will be jealous ♥

When I hear someone saying this is "true love" I wonder.. "True love" ?? Now, what is true love? Is love true and fake? For me love is love.

Sometime back a friend tweeted "You do not fall in love, you rise in love!"

My instant reaction was "YES" and so I retweeted and replied and hence a little long conversation started.

There is a lot said about love, there are quotes, stories, novels and movies and what not! Still, we have a lot more to say, a lot more to express and a lot more to feel.

Well, when a topic is raised there are arguments and counter-arguments, it is the same with love.

What is love?
The question itself is complicated and then we have come up with yet another concept "True Love"
We also try to classify if love is good or bad.
I feel love cannot be bad, destructive or harmful. It is the combination of other feelings along with love which make it negative. (jealousy, lust etc)



Love to me:

When I get up; when I open my eyes,
My only wish is to see you sleeping beside,
Every day of my life, I want to start with a kiss;
I know that same is your wish,
For the rest of my life having tea in the same mug;
When we depart to meet again a tight hug,
Except you, there are no thoughts at all
Being with you I have realised,
Love is where you can only rise,
When you get drowned in it and let yourself have a free fall.

People might say that love is blind, but I  know love sees and just doesn't mind! ~ Sam


♥♥The love song I am playing on loop♥♥

You're the apple to my pie

You're the straw to my berry

You're the smoke to my high

And you're the one i wanna marry. cuz your the

1 4 me and im the 1 4 you.you take the both of us .We're the perfect 2.

My twitter-sister @arpitaappu also has a little poem about love knocking at her door:  Love Knocked on my Heart

Share your thoughts on love!

Cheers to the beautiful life!

Finding love (I love the guys who work out!)

Falling in love with eyes is easier, but you understand it with your ears!-~Sam 

When I was in class 6^th I was a mad Salman Khan fan, then came Arjun Rampal, Milind Soman, Muzamil Ibrahim, Rahul Khanna and many more.  Then in college I had this small poster of Beckham on my wall and he looked amazing! One common thing about these guys is that they work out.  They all look fit (LOOK)! I know none of them is perfect but still they are doing something good with their body.

Liking a guy: When a girl looks at a guy, few things run in her mind without her knowledge.  Female brain thinks in terms of offspring. Will she like to have a kid who is exactly like this guy? If the answer is yes she goes ahead. Then as they come to know each other, she thinks; will she like her offspring to have these good/bad qualities? If the answer is yes goes ahead. Then the question is, can she bear one more person exactly like this one? If the answer is yes she will go ahead.

About the girl who want to change the guy:

“Purpose of love is not to change you but to improve you as a person”-~ Sam

Girl's thought process!

If someone is trying to change you even though you are good/right, she is not the one for you. But if she is doing it for better, i.e., grooming you or improving you in someway ..she is the one!

Take time to understand!

Why do I like the guys who work-out?

Well not exactly the ones who work out but the ones who take time out for themselves, take care of themselves. Because it is the sign that they care about themselves and they love themselves  J

“Only the one who loves and cares about self can love someone else.” -~ Sam

One who is not ‘happy’ alone cannot be happy with someone too.

So go out, travel, work out, find time for yourself, love yourself and you will find love!

Cheers!!

Note : I'm chubby but I meditate, eat healthy, practice yoga, walk. When I say work-out I do not intend to say anything about shape, it is the wellness factor that matters.

The girl-boy thing

Hi!

I know I have not posted anything since a long long time but any excuse is not going to be good. I was lazy and now once again I am here to share something.

Relationships are complicated and I know no one can understand them completely but who said we actually need to understand them?

I am a life coach but that does not mean I will be guiding you on 'How to have a successful girl-boy relationship'

Oh yes I said 'girl-boy' and not a love affair..

Many might think I am writing from my experience but you will never know;)

Just Friends : A famous Hindi movie dialogue goes 'Ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte' (A guy and a girl can never be just friends) and even though we ignore this almost every time one of the two tends to cross the line.

What to do when this happens: Things may or may not be the same once this has happened but still ask yourself these questions..

1) Can there be really something between us?
2) Should I give it a shot?

You might think this is an insane advise but duh you should really consider because there is a spark and life is about taking chances. It might not work but then everyone is going to move on.

Now if your answer to both these question is NO. Don't worry you have been wise and you know what is right for you. Now if the other person still wants to be your friend try to be 'you' and things will be fine.


What is you are the one who likes his/her friend?!!!!

Okay Okay so there is a possibility of this too and hell don't feel as if you are screwed... Let that person read my blog and ask him/her to consider the part one of this post:P Okay again kidding.. but you may still take a shot:))

Ah, so now it is you who likes someone and that someone happens to be you buddy.

Now lets consider you have not expressed the feelings.

In this case its going to be simple. Just wait and things will fall into right place.

If you have blabbered what you feel..its going to be awkward.. for both of you.

Now all you can do is answer the following questions:

!) Am I satisfied that I told him/her and now I know the fact and I can move on?
2) Can we be just friends?

If your answer is yes good you just need some time.. If your answer is no then WAKE-UP or just shoot me a mail with your problem!!

There is nothing wrong in falling in love with a friend... there is nothing wrong in falling in love and there is nothing wrong in falling in love again and again...

Its all normal...

The most important thing is to love yourself and be faithful to your heart...


- SAM

Cheers to beautiful life