Many beautiful things happen in our life. The little things from where we are meant to squeeze out the happiness the ones we mostly miss out. I am here to remind you that life is beautiful.Cheers!!
Many of the girls are shy of buying sanitary pads, bras and
condoms in public… Many of the local vendors hide these things in a black
plastic bag and then hand it over… ah that ain’t no hash man.. It’s just a part
of being a woman.
Common query somewhere was… I had my periods then I had “relationship”
with my boyfriend..it has been a month periods are not back..I’m scared!
First: Dahlin, you din’t have relationship.. you had sex..
Second: Have you ever heard of protection??
Third: Emergency contraceptives???
If you were fine with it, were ashamed of buying this
happily available stuff then do you have right to cry and complain?
NO!
Be ashamed of being wrong, be ashamed when you lie, be
ashamed if you don’t even try before you quit.
Don’t be ashamed of your body, the biology and the fact that
men and women were designed this way and there is absolutely nothing wrong
(morally too) in doing what you feel is RIGHT J
The little girl was playing with food bowl. She carried it
to her dad and grandmother said, “Good she is preparing herself for future!”
Which future I wonder!
Who are we to define a two-year-old’s future?
Yes! We are nobody to decide. We have no business here.
Root Cause?
Mothers! Ah mothers love their kids so much.. they want the
best for them. Still most of moms who are inclined towards their sons or well,
have only sons tend to do something terrible, a well.. out of love though.. They
train them to be dependent. They train them NOT to cook. The sister is taught
cooking even if she is younger and the brother eats.. ummm..mostly..
The result:
When you get into a relationship or marriage … being a girl
you are EXPECTED to cook and TAKE CARE of the household.
I wonder who made this rule.
I know.. I know.. you will things are changing and all that
bull-shit…Or may be things are better than they were..
But is that all we want? I mean.. BETTER that is all we aim
for?
Damn! Nope.. Hell no.. We should aim for what is right..
That is what we should aim for..
Dear Mothers
Don’t train your son to eat delicacies, train to cook some.
Don’t make them feel it is their right to GET things and kitchen is a place of
female domination. Tell them their Dad is WRONG in not helping you in your
household duties. Tell them how difficult it has been for you to manage. Once
in a while instead of feeding them with aloo parathas ask them to make some
rotis for you. Teach them what is RIGHT and not what has been going on since
generations.
A girl on the other hand gets soooo used to doing all the
stuff that she thinks she can be a super-woman.
She is made to believe that she is supposed to do it all and that she
has to be perfect. She is told that she is the one who has to balance work and
family. She is supposed to do it without asking WHY!
Let me ask you WHY? Please leave your answer in the comment…
If you are a guy and you can make decent rotis- I respect you, I <3 you!! J
For a ‘twitterholic’ like me twitter is a
virtual home. It’s a place where I have built relationships and understood a
lot about life, people, places, and what not.
When someone tells me “I’m not a 140 chars
person” or even worse things like “Why would I talk with random strangers on
web”, a part of me sighs!
So I’m going to talk about 3 basics of
twitter, there are many which I’ll keep on sharing later J
About
140 chars: Who doesn’t love short statements and if
you can’t sum something up in few words you haven’t understood it well enough.
You can tell a story in 140 chars! I’m not a man of few words is just a myth.
Give it a try and you’ll see inspiration comes through few words and not many
paragraphs. Also who has time for longer stories?!
Meeting
strangers: Every single person you know practically
was a stranger once. Even the ones we know turn out to be frauds or two-faced.
Meeting someone virtually is same as meeting someone at a park, at
school/college/work or a conference. This space just widens your possibilities.
I’m
insecure: Don’t know what for! Well, security
threats are always going to be there. No matter where you are you are always at
risk. So that is just not a reason!
If you have anymore doubts always feel free to ask!
I haven't seen the cloud nine but Nandi hills is absolutely above it!
Some 60kms from Bangalore is a little heaven on mountains, it is called Nandi Hills. One fine night we decided to gear up and ride our way to this beautiful place!
Here is my story!!
Very very early in the morning we reached, it was too dark..the ride had been amazing!
The sky was extremely beautiful, the place crowded and yes, every other person like me wanted to click the best picture of the rising sun....
Then it turned a little dark...
Finally! Mesmerized by the beauty of nature...
Then we took a round of the place and clicked clicked and clicked more ;)
Sometimes it is okay to break some rules..
As I look at the peak of the mountain..I'm lost ...
As we came down, we were surprised..we hadn't seen any of this on our way up..yeah it was too dark!
It is FUN!
Nandi hills: 60kms from Bangalore
How to reach: Bikes,cars and taxis are the best option
What is it: Well, it is a temple but it is more famous for the surreal beauty.
Leave at around 2-2:30am and you might reach there on time, do check the time of sunrise though!
Managing your diabetes is not science, it's an art!
There was a time when I used to walk 120 minutes daily! Now it
is come down to as low as 15 minutes per day. I wonder how much do we walk. If
we had a choice will we walk at all? Who knows!!
Our lifestyle is leading us to many and more diseases every day.
Let’s talk about the most common of them: Diabetes!
I just took a 6 seconds test and realised I’m at a very low risk
of diabetes.
About the 6 seconds test:
Janacare, are building
an online diabetes prevention program (called the Habits Program) to
enable pre-diabetics achieve healthier lifestyle habits and avoid
full-blown type II diabetes.
As part of this effort, photokatha (@photokatha) is
conducting an online experiment called ”Sugarscore“ to
understand India’s Diabetes risk.Sugarscoreis a six second survey that will help
you understand your risk for Diabetes. The user basically goes to www.sugarscore.in and
quickly answers five questions (age, gender, waist size, physical
activity levels and family history of diabetes) to get his or herSugarscore.
It is always great to
see that people come up with initiatives for building a safer city for women.
Flash news:
Today I read that now Khap won’t allow jeans and t-shirts
for girls, huh nothing new isn’t it. After all they are the people who can
justify rape too!
The Sad Truth:
While I was growing up I was told to be different. Different
than my brother. I was suppose to be home early. This concept was very
acceptable and seemed ‘okay’. Today as I look back I see the problem lies right
there. We as women are TOLD that we can or cannot do certain things and when we
do otherwise any outcome is something we have called upon us by our actions!
From Porbandar to Rajkot to Ahmedabad to Mysore to Bangalore:
Nothing, means nothing is different. Same set of
eve-teasers, same abusing guys in nooks and corners and well same attitude. I
have been in trouble a couple of times here in Bangalore just the way I was in
Rajkot.
Yes! I would say it is ‘comparatively’ safer to say ummm..
Delhi! But safety on comparative terms isn’t effective way of measurement, is
it?
What we need?
We need ‘men’ to understand the value of women! (now that is
generic and far from possible in many ways)
All the guys who are up for the cause are in some way better
than the ones who are not. But everyone is biased in some way or the other.
Protection is women has become a bigger point while taking ‘revenge’ (I mean
literally) from the culprit isn’t that important, nor is teaching lesson or
well STOPPING it.
Then there are these people I knew for quite a long time and
now twitter is our best mode of communication. (@HTravadi@nhmerchant)
Apart from these I also follow some biggies J (@gupshupblog is also
a biggie J )
I have a #chai cheers group which shares my interest with
tea and then there are these #TwitterBrothers #TwitterSisters who happily call me didi/sis!
I went through a rough patch, a really really rough patch
and all these (including @casanovacupid) helped me through it.
All I want to say is I love twitter and for those who do not
understand it I’m sorry you might never, till you don’t use it the right way
and understand the importance of relations you build right there!
I might have missed many handles here (#TeamPositive @Gods_Evangelos #TeamFafda and many more) but the fact is that I can go on and on and I tell
you, it is the NEED to be needed and NEED to fulfill someone’s need that bounds
us.
I might not interact with all those 2K friends but I know I’m
one tweet away from finding help and one request for rt away for getting more
help.
Tweet Tweet! Social media has allowed us to touch new
horizons and make friends without borders. It has made us realize that you don’t
have to meet someone to fall in love, to be a friend or to understand, support and
show affection.
(Not to mention my twitter addiction is the reason I’ve got
my job @mHealthTips!!)
Remember this quote:
“Twitter provides us with a
wonderful platform to discuss/confront societal problems. We trend Justin
Bieber instead.” ―Lauren Leto
I am the kind of person who does not have
problems with caffeine; I have a problem without caffeine J let’s face it; the world is
divided into three type of people: the coffee lovers, the tea lovers and the
mixed category who aren't decisive enough. Tea can make you feel good in the
morning or at any point of time but it is not the conversation starter. Well,
no one has ever asked me for a tea date yet. But coffee is the conversations
starter, an ideal way to meet people and sometimes it also plays the role of
Cupid.
I remember how my first date came to me and
asked "Would you like to have coffee with me?” My first thought was well
at least it is not in a dark theater where I cannot control things and I would
be surrounded by people. I felt it was safe to say yes (yes, at that time
safety mattered, because I didn't know him well). It is very comfortable to be
out in open place in presence of others with mind and body feeling safe and
hoping for some wonderful conversation can take us to the next level. This is
how things start or say this is the easiest way to start the things. There is
nothing like getting to know one another while sipping coffee and enjoying the
presence of one another forgetting about the surrounding if things go well and
looking and enjoying the surrounding if the things go dull. That is why someone
came up with that awesome tag line "A lot can happen over a coffee",
intelligent, smart and sexy all at a time.
When you sit and talk and sip your coffee
it is never about the taste of that coffee but the richness of the conversation
which makes you fall in love with coffee, it forces you to have coffee time and
again and many times with the same person.
“The
awesomeness of the conversation is inversely proportional to the amount of coffee
in your cup.” ~ Sam
I have seen friends or group of people
hanging out at coffee houses. I have also seen people having business meetings
and interviews over coffee but what excites me the most is to see the making of
a new love story, the lethal chemical combination happening over a cup of
coffee. Maybe this is not how love flourishes and how relationships take shape
but for sure this how they can start.
Coffee
and conversations will always be timeless because they are meant to be.
It’s Funny how someone can break your heart,
yet you still love them with all your pieces <3
Break-ups aren’t simple,
easy or digestible for any of us. Not going into details of my experience let’s
understand what is the easy way to deal with it.
You were together and so
love, affection and attachment- all this is natural. But when you break-up pain
and anger become dominant. These feelings don’t have to be controlled but need
a better mode of expression.
Burn, throw and delete
You might think this is
childish but it is the best thing to do. Delete the mails, burn the letters and
those little notes and give away/throw away those gifts. This might sound harsh
but do it anyways.
Unfriend, unfollow and block
You might be okay to see
them later but not now. Now you need detachment. Social media detachment is
super important because you don’t need to stay ‘updated’ anymore. It is best to
block all their info for a while (atleast).
Read, party and enjoy your ‘Freedom’
Remember how you used to
crib that you don’t get much time for yourself. Now there is surely and empty
slot you can utilize for yourself. So why not! Go for it, and enjoy your
freedom.
Sulking is a no-no
This is life and
whatever happens happens. There isn't any point in sitting and sulking, crying,
sobbing, shouting, feeling guilty ah..all those negative feelings. Go out with
friends, meditate, exercise and #BeBetter
A little pool of tears and ah why did I love
too much is okay
Yeah, I mean you cannot
be totally ‘normal’, after all this is not how you imagined it would be. Be sad
for a while and cry a little if you want.
And when nothing works…
Punch them on face and get some ice-cream
No! Would you do that?
If it makes you feel good you should do that. Then again it is your choice, but
I’ll love to know.. would you do that??!!
Break-ups aren’t easy
but life moves on and it is better to look forward then to look back and cry J
When the past calls, let
it go to the voice mail. It anyways doesn't have anything new to say.
Remember two things:
“You need to kiss thousand
frogs to find a prince!”
And
“When the time is right,
the right things just happen.”
There is a way of using twitter effectively than just tweeting random stuff! Read on to know more..
I love
twitterverse (Check out the pic at the end and you'll know) and there is a reason to it. If you have read my 5 people who made me love twitter you will understand how without right guidance and
communication on twitter either you end up quitting twiiter or use it in totally wrong
way.
Life in twitterverse
5 important things about twitter:
Hey I just followed you and this is crazy, here’s
my DM reply me may be:
Sending a DM right after getting a followback is not a good practice. It is
better to have some tweet to tweet talk before opting for DMs.
**Statuary
warning: DM after followback can be irritating and can lead to unfollow or
block!
Following each other doesn't mean you are
friends (read long lost friends): Communication is the key. Following someone doesn't make him/her your
friend. It needs “right” kind of communication, sharing, mutual respect and “x-factor”
(the friendship might or might not click without any reason) to become friends.
Read my blog mentions: Some relations are just limited to “Read
my #newpost” requests. Sharing is good, it is the base of blogging life but just
share-my-content or read-my-content requests are irritating and can showcase
you in a totally wrong way. It is always good to initiate some conversation
too.
It’s not about holding on, it’s about moving
on: If someone does
not want to communicate, don’t force. You can ask once or may be twice and when
it doesn’t work be a grown up and move on. The twitterverse is vast and there
are many more twiends still waiting for you to find them J
Your tweet is valuable: Instead of tweeting anything,
filling the TL with #Drunkedtweets on weekends and just vending out negative
feeling use twitter to share something “Share-worthy”. There is so much of
important and really good content out there which can lift your moods, help
someone’s business or can do some good, go ahead share that!
So what do
you think is important to be a good tweeter? J
Though turning 24, 25 or 26 is not a big deal because every day of life has to be a celebration. Still, I love this ‘the day’ because well, yeah I arrived at this lovely planet to meet you all on this day J
Here are 25 things about life as I turn 25!
“Life is beautiful” – This is my favourite quote and I believe in it.
Everything is possible if there are hope and faith.
If something doesn't go right even if you have given it your best, it is God’s way of saying, “No, not now!”
If you love it, you’ll find a way to do it.
Travelling makes you richer at heart.
People you meet, people you interact with have an impact on you which is more than one.
You won’t be always right. But then no one is.
Taking up the challenge to overcome your fear can make you realize that there was no reason to be afraid anyway.
Do not suppress yourself; do not try to change, not even in a relationship. Because one day your true self will come out and you will not know what to do.
If you think an incident didn't teach you anything, you are wrong. Retrospect!
You don’t have to worry about what others think. All you need to understand is how you feel about ‘it’.
No one is self-made. People who helped you to be where you are should always be given the credit.
Magical things grow out of unlikely beginnings.
Everyone feels low at some point. Don’t be afraid of shedding some tears. Remember, bounce back!
Follow the ones who inspire and be friends with the one who is positive.
If you cannot help someone say goodbye to their negativity, restrain yourself to ‘hi-hello’.
Life is a cake-walk for someone, is a myth.
If you don’t tell them what you want, they’ll not know.
Wasting your time talking about other people, leads to wasting of the amazing ideas which would have come into your mind if you were not gossiping.
You are movies you watch, songs you listen, books you read and the food you eat. Almost.
Food is an expression of love <3
Gratitude is more important than attitude.
Life isn't very simple but again you are not supposed to solve the math puzzle at every step.
Nothing comes for ‘Free’, never.
Things happen when they are least expected.
This is what I've learned and well, there is a lot to learn. I met all of you somewhere somehow in these 25 years and I’m grateful to each one of you J
Yes!! It is time to party Ganagnam Style J
If you are gonna leave a comment please tell me what do you think about me :P
I crave a love so deep that the ocean will be jealous ♥
When I hear someone saying this is "true love" I wonder.. "True love" ?? Now, what is true love? Is love true and fake? For me love is love.
Sometime back a friend tweeted "You do not fall in love, you rise in love!"
My instant reaction was "YES" and so I retweeted and replied and hence a little long conversation started.
There is a lot said about love, there are quotes, stories, novels and movies and what not! Still, we have a lot more to say, a lot more to express and a lot more to feel.
Well, when a topic is raised there are arguments and counter-arguments, it is the same with love.
What is love?
The question itself is complicated and then we have come up with yet another concept "True Love"
We also try to classify if love is good or bad.
I feel love cannot be bad, destructive or harmful. It is the combination of other feelings along with love which make it negative. (jealousy, lust etc)
Love to me:
When I get up; when I open my eyes, My only wish is to see you sleeping beside, Every day of my life, I want to start with a kiss; I know that same is your wish, For the rest of my life having tea in the same mug; When we depart to meet again a tight hug, Except you, there are no thoughts at all Being with you I have realised, Love is where you can only rise, When you get drowned in it and let yourself have a free fall.
People might say that love is blind, but I know love sees and just doesn't mind! ~ Sam
♥♥The love song I am playing on loop♥♥
You're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one i wanna marry. cuz your the
1 4 me and im the 1 4 you.you take the both of us .We're the perfect 2.
Can we pretend that airplanes In the night sky Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now (wish right now, wish right now)
A new post
after a long time!!
So how have
you been?
Lately I
find myself using a phrase a lot.. “How I wish”.. Oh yes.. only if wishes came
so say.. but they don’t and still we “wish”.. We live by hope and faith and
without these two magical words life will lose its meaning! Won’t it?
When you
say you wish, think deeper.. do you really? If you do, rise and plan to achieve
what you wish for because that is how this “I wish” takes a new shape of “I
will” and then “I will” into “I have” J and if you cannot dare to do that
quit saying “I wish” because no one on the earth comes turn your wishes into
reality J
I stand at
the horizon of wordlessness
With a
shoe-box full of wishes in words abstract
Feelings I
have can’t be expressed
I know not
my path but I hope
I know not
my path but I have faith
I know not
if they will come true but I will work
I know not
if I would be through but I know it’s worth
If I don’t
work today tomorrow I might regret
Regrets
that might be deep, the one’s I won’t ever forget
I have
time, it’s not late I know I can shine bright
I will turn
my wishes into reality and show how I did the things right!
Till then I have only one thing to say!
"Dear dandelions, eye lashes and shooting stars; please do your job well" J
Don't say "I wish" say "I will" and do it! - Sam
iWish, no there is no app for it you need to do it on your own! - Sam
Some people want it to happen.. Some people wish it would happen..and some make it happen..!!! - @FunduFundas
One Bad wish for someone costs your thousands Blessings - @WildOrc14053315