When I was in class 6th I was a mad Salman Khan fan, then came Arjun Rampal, Milind Soman, Muzamil Ibrahim, Rahul Khanna and many more. Then in college I had this small poster of Beckham on my wall and he looked amazing! One common thing about these guys is that they work out. They all look fit (LOOK)! I know none of them is perfect but still they are doing something good with their body.
Liking a guy: When a girl looks at a guy, few things run in her mind without her knowledge. Female brain thinks in terms of offspring. Will she like to have a kid who is exactly like this guy? If the answer is yes she goes ahead. Then as they come to know each other, she thinks; will she like her offspring to have these good/bad qualities? If the answer is yes goes ahead. Then the question is, can she bear one more person exactly like this one? If the answer is yes she will go ahead.
About the girl who want to change the guy:
“Purpose of love is not to change you but to improve you as a person”-~ Sam
|Girl's thought process!|
If someone is trying to change you even though you are good/right, she is not the one for you. But if she is doing it for better, i.e., grooming you or improving you in someway ..she is the one!
Take time to understand!
Why do I like the guys who work-out?
Well not exactly the ones who work out but the ones who take time out for themselves, take care of themselves. Because it is the sign that they care about themselves and they love themselves J
“Only the one who loves and cares about self can love someone else.” -~ Sam
One who is not ‘happy’ alone cannot be happy with someone too.
So go out, travel, work out, find time for yourself, love yourself and you will find love!
Note : I'm chubby but I meditate, eat healthy, practice yoga, walk. When I say work-out I do not intend to say anything about shape, it is the wellness factor that matters.